tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-51749612945198045682024-03-13T01:40:42.238-04:00Mi Casa Su Casa?Making light of the daily trials and tribulations of raising a family! And always wondering...."Is it me, or does this happen in your house too?"Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.comBlogger68125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-59142182473039211762011-07-05T17:34:00.015-04:002011-07-05T18:00:04.015-04:00A picture's worth 1,000 words (here's 4,000 for ya)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjNd6vXshtay79TqO7KOl2NfrjKnjhvA_q7wBsY11vE2krKGhWtZdoW44gSQCgrL9jj6QAhuR1Qs_MNvZKWhSQ-T0tIw3x7HO3_IUY-F9xeIxH7O19oOxZ5f0L8APqBvb9WrlXU4OgXFo2/s1600/DSC_0824.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 213px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5625990334644748210" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjNd6vXshtay79TqO7KOl2NfrjKnjhvA_q7wBsY11vE2krKGhWtZdoW44gSQCgrL9jj6QAhuR1Qs_MNvZKWhSQ-T0tIw3x7HO3_IUY-F9xeIxH7O19oOxZ5f0L8APqBvb9WrlXU4OgXFo2/s320/DSC_0824.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1LmHi_zUHKaPf0Ts1kDfMZJv1kvzscptly24nwfpJO_tTAI36D2BIEhiUBqqdtYIS0jnS1cnzhUn70CO0axmD2fPw_tet2mxXEwyDapGt-DZQoTYlvidcfcWuyRK6Qg-I9zqSYqYIGpP5/s1600/DSC_0828.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 213px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5625990209286221986" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1LmHi_zUHKaPf0Ts1kDfMZJv1kvzscptly24nwfpJO_tTAI36D2BIEhiUBqqdtYIS0jnS1cnzhUn70CO0axmD2fPw_tet2mxXEwyDapGt-DZQoTYlvidcfcWuyRK6Qg-I9zqSYqYIGpP5/s320/DSC_0828.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhA3IQbo1UP99VX2HydqWa6Evg6s8Iq3MXG-ZyvnZ2NxXr-WPqjSIZH60wFDiByHcFTWlOP7Ymlc9LO8wFzdcugm9dxaex7L_jCNAWDRheRqdd3jBwqPeXdxHViUgSDwLhqp8yjf4nF5DZ5/s1600/DSC_0828.JPG"></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmG23Rlmzdg83auill3jiVE-MVoAOF5mZJ1HNOZTjzx0MwKmVyPBqVL_mDyedJCPoDT_eOLK8Gw0ya3sWwGBgeWjk0u_0w5Wji8zTldbvnECEsEuzWsGFpGXRODYsVq2NB_V34vN7Cq3To/s1600/DSC_0862.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5625989970325124770" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmG23Rlmzdg83auill3jiVE-MVoAOF5mZJ1HNOZTjzx0MwKmVyPBqVL_mDyedJCPoDT_eOLK8Gw0ya3sWwGBgeWjk0u_0w5Wji8zTldbvnECEsEuzWsGFpGXRODYsVq2NB_V34vN7Cq3To/s320/DSC_0862.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhB6i3oCiI5rvSNIM8ba9XqurxIDIb-afcYJ7t9tyNtmXmNf4nseRQ-cUTlxjxpYxjFZ0luRfDNlLKngBAHNmpZUaphnncfrOtrC8oTfLOTDORDGwn2iooCLyLYJLGKlYMIyoaqaw4ysEs-/s1600/DSC_0863.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5625989887278090498" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhB6i3oCiI5rvSNIM8ba9XqurxIDIb-afcYJ7t9tyNtmXmNf4nseRQ-cUTlxjxpYxjFZ0luRfDNlLKngBAHNmpZUaphnncfrOtrC8oTfLOTDORDGwn2iooCLyLYJLGKlYMIyoaqaw4ysEs-/s320/DSC_0863.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div>The story is in the pictures. I'm not sure whether I gave birth to a future Broadway star, Oscar award winner or perhaps a gypsy?? (hence all the bracelets). One thing is for sure, this kid is a character. Ballerina costume and flag - that's how she came out of her room for our 4th of July cookout. I called for her, "Maddy, Nana and Papa are here!" "Awww, I love those guys," she says and then she appears - all done up. Her pose with all the barrettes in her hair - that's how she wanted to go to her Dr.'s appointment this morning. And when reasoning didn't work, or compromising (2 barrettes Maddy???), I had to remove the barrettes myself; needless to say it was 8:30 in the morning and I was already in a full sweat. One doctor appointment and two dentist appointments later, my husband calls to see if I am enjoying my "vacation."<br /></div><br /><br /><div>Of course I am....but don't tell him that! ;)<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><br /><br /><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><br /></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-56499528377197069122011-06-24T20:05:00.007-04:002011-06-24T21:21:22.620-04:00Good thing I haven't saved a single PENNY for college...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtpSFnFMju7MLollI7BJaO2B0sehEGRz62paTtHx7iBKutAw5nHeMjvMqq98GogFlIKJOisXiZCowCopsULrS5B9CsogUshmJBg4RCZtSeWB8VpiSepMxmuQ_jYFZz8l2JD2j2FzJogMz2/s1600/DSC_0814.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5621961101803184146" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtpSFnFMju7MLollI7BJaO2B0sehEGRz62paTtHx7iBKutAw5nHeMjvMqq98GogFlIKJOisXiZCowCopsULrS5B9CsogUshmJBg4RCZtSeWB8VpiSepMxmuQ_jYFZz8l2JD2j2FzJogMz2/s320/DSC_0814.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><div>Now that school is almost out - I wanted to make all of my loyal blog readers a handy-dandy summer study guide - just to keep your skills sharp. Lucky for me, my darling second grader brought home a bunch of work today. Included in her overflowing backpack was a big poster with a newspaper-like title: <strong>"Abraham Lincoln Times"</strong> where she wrote all about Lincoln. Here's what is says:</div><br /><br /><br /><div>The writing prompts she was given are in <strong>bold</strong>, <em>her responses are in italics</em> and my snide remarks (are in <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">parentheses</span>.)</div><br /><br /><br /><div><strong>Character Matters...</strong><em>Abraham was a person who loved everyone who had any color skin and if a black colored person died he would care. </em>(as opposed to the rest of us)</div><br /><br /><br /><div><strong>Jobs held</strong>: <em>a post office</em></div><br /><br /><br /><div><strong>Where this person lived and worked: </strong><em>A post office </em>(obviously a very short commute to work)</div><br /><br /><br /><div><strong>Fun Facts:<em> </em></strong><em>Abraham is now dead.</em> (Wow! That's a FUN FACT if I ever did hear one!!!!)</div><br /><br /><br /><div><strong>Other Fun Facts</strong>: <em>Abraham is 202 years old. He was born in 1809</em>. (A little contradictory to her other fun fact, but hey...still fun nonetheless.)</div><br /><br /><br /><div><strong><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">Major Accomplishments</span></strong>...<em> Abraham liked when people were nice to each other</em>. (I think that's all he really accomplished right? That explains why he's on the penny. I guess being President of the Unites States, abolishing slavery, and issuing the emancipation proclamation didn't really measure-up on her list of "major accomplishements" huh!?!?)</div><br /><br /><br /><div>And last but not least, her stunning potrait of Lincon. I see Ivy League in her future. ;)</div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-54797908003045322972011-06-13T16:09:00.005-04:002011-06-13T16:48:29.364-04:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicAHECVRsWcAVms7SKw65FZ18uy2IGEuoB8LcpCZoPTwP_ocbvtpw12_8z2fcIjPOXDNAPs9NXsFH0qsQp6vBgLp5f-OsJrA1K9TTQC2vnuI881ncbYOQVV8JPNX7GlctbyxgWoYEG3Vy2/s1600/DSC_0790.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 213px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5617801032181888450" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicAHECVRsWcAVms7SKw65FZ18uy2IGEuoB8LcpCZoPTwP_ocbvtpw12_8z2fcIjPOXDNAPs9NXsFH0qsQp6vBgLp5f-OsJrA1K9TTQC2vnuI881ncbYOQVV8JPNX7GlctbyxgWoYEG3Vy2/s320/DSC_0790.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXrn3TyqhU5avHsJYF9IMQ7LeS_GpT6xzvLkEnRvCLB6V3ddFY2L4-AviFFaS1mFRLBgniyhOye6xKSxhTBTYINA6OeD_MIJFEARRAW-f-SIs0RNrbRsV0mdiy_v_zU5f5AC4-2uTdUI-C/s1600/DSC_0792.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5617800898716222946" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXrn3TyqhU5avHsJYF9IMQ7LeS_GpT6xzvLkEnRvCLB6V3ddFY2L4-AviFFaS1mFRLBgniyhOye6xKSxhTBTYINA6OeD_MIJFEARRAW-f-SIs0RNrbRsV0mdiy_v_zU5f5AC4-2uTdUI-C/s320/DSC_0792.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div>I was in the kitchen getting dinner prepared when I heard, "MOOOOOMMMM, I have a surprise for you!" She comes around the corner and says, "Guess what's in my belly?" (see photo).</div><br /><br /><div>I reply, "I don't know Maddy, what is it?" "I'm having a baby in my belly!!!!" she replies gleefully.</div><br /><br /><div>Now I'm no ob/gyn but I came to 2 conclusions pretty quickly. First this baby was breech and two - I don't think we're going to make it to the hospital in time, as this baby was already making an entrance into the world. Luckily Maddy then told me that she all ready for the baby's arrival. She had diapers, a cribby, wagons, binkies, toys. I quickly grabbed the video to get this moment on film. Funny how CUTE it is now and how NOT SO CUTE it will be at 16. :)</div></div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-64334501970468244732011-03-23T22:03:00.006-04:002011-03-23T22:48:02.628-04:00Joke's on me...All the "funny" stories I tell about my children and family....God finally punished me. Joke's on me this time. Here goes...<br /><br />So I have accounts on all the new "discount" coupon sites....groupon.com, livingsocial.com, restaurant.com, buywithme.com and I was on a good roll. $10 for a $25 gift certificate to my favorite restaurant. $17 for a mani/pedi at a spa near-by, etc. And then came the mother load, the offer of all offers, the offer I had to tell the world about - 50% off of chicken pot pies!!! Yes, you read correctly- $15 for a $30 gift certificate to Harrow's - famous for their chicken pot pies. These things are a staple for dinner at this house. And I know my parents like them too, so I excitedly call my mother to tell her about this deal of a century (could my life get ANY more pathetic at this point). So I try explaining to my computer illiterate mother how to log on to buywithme.com and create an account (super easy - just need email and password!) and how to find/purchase the voucher for Harrow's. Then I realize that I can save her all the trouble and just log into my buywithme account and "refer" her - send her the link directly. AND the kicker - if she signs-up and orders a coupon, I get a $10 credit. Awesome. So I type her name in the space and click "refer." A few hours later, I see all of these emails that my "buywithme link" was undeliverable to the following email addresses...blah blah blah. I'm looking at the email addresses saying, "What the $%^#%^???" I didn't send the link to these people!!! I log back into buywithme and go under "refer a friend" again, and there, right before my eyes....my entire AOL email address book with <strong>ALL 248</strong> contacts <em>checked off</em> to receive the link which comes in the form of an email from me saying, "KERI thought you would love buywithme" and then goes on to say that I would receive $10 credit if they signed up and bought something. So I scroll through my email address book, which consists of literally everyone I have sent an email to in the past ten years. Some of the people who received this special chicken pot pie deal via email from me last night...<br />my current boss...<br />my old boss...<br />Assistant Superintendent of Schools...<br />my brother's ex-wife...<br />the business office director at the college where I am finishing my CAGS...<br />my current college supervisor...<br />my college supervisor from my Master's program 7 years ago...<br />old co-workers from 10+ years ago...<br />all the mothers from my daughter's dance competition team...<br />the secretary at my old job, my current job, and my daughter's dance studio...<br />my daughter's kindergarten teacher from 2 years ago...<br />the director/owner of the preschool where my little one goes...<br />the clown from my daughter's 5th birthday party 3 years ago... (do clowns eat chicken pot pie?)<br />and Many, many, many unknowns....joemocap??? jupers??? who the hell are these people and why and when did I ever email them?<br /><br /><p>Oh man. What can you do!?!? The good news -- it was not a virus that I sent out. Or a groupon for stripper pole lessons. And I would like to personally thank the ONE person of the 248 people I sent the link to who actually signed-up. But I can't, because I didn't recognize your email address and have no idea who you are. (no joke).</p><p><br /></p>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-74490190620989185072011-03-19T14:30:00.000-04:002011-03-19T14:37:05.091-04:00Parenting 101<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTdyAnaojn0UYuGCwVtdyavGmnd5MMzeFqsCMZHV4E7CM3YPjRtAzAqQZov3_X5mYW-1t5hsAaVip9V9ohbg3XUNdbhXdkfa1C5grbQyphbguRMVov0_SqRs0tLxNoiKsvDPy-_DAUB_lu/s1600/DSC_0363.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5585859242123569234" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTdyAnaojn0UYuGCwVtdyavGmnd5MMzeFqsCMZHV4E7CM3YPjRtAzAqQZov3_X5mYW-1t5hsAaVip9V9ohbg3XUNdbhXdkfa1C5grbQyphbguRMVov0_SqRs0tLxNoiKsvDPy-_DAUB_lu/s320/DSC_0363.JPG" /></a> As someone who travels A LOT, I mean like -- ALL over the town of Danvers -- everywhere I go, people are always asking me, "Keri...how is it that you have managed to raise such sweet, wholesome, well-mannered, well-adjusted children?" So I thought it was time for me to share my parenting secrets. <div><div><div><div>1. First and foremost, in order to train your children properly you must create the illusion of "<strong><em>THE MAN</em></strong>"....</div><div>THE MAN can be used to keep your children walking next to your shopping cart. You simply say, "Stay right here, do you want <strong><em>THE MAN</em></strong> to get you!?!?"It can be used when the child has already strayed away from you: "HEY! You better get back here, <strong><em>THE MAN</em></strong> is coming!!!"It can be used when your child is touching or doing something that they shouldn't be, "<strong><em>THE MAN</em></strong> is watching you, he's going to come over here."Please note, this technique has excellent fast-acting results but the long-term effects (nightmares? therapy?) are still unknown at this point.</div><br /><p>2. For children aged 2 and up, who are exercising their independence and want to dress themselves, you must NEVER EVER even lay one finger on a piece of clothing you actually want them to wear. Don't even give any inkling as to which outfit you want them to wear. They could be just about to select something perfect from their drawer, but if they see you eyeballing it first they will NOT wear it, for fear of thinking they actually wore something you wanted them to.</p><p>3. For picky eaters, like mine...you must imply that whatever they don't eat will have to be supplied by a shot at the Doctor's office. "If you don't eat your chicken, you're going to have to get the protein poultry shot at the Doctor's office!" For added effect, say this as you pretend to dial the phone to make the appointment - and watch the chicken disappear!</p><p>4. Accept ketchup as a vegetable. Every mom secretly does anyway.</p><p>5. Never teach your child how to tell time and if some over-achieving ambitious teacher teaches them at school- then whatever you do, <strong>do not</strong> buy them a watch. I learned this the hard way, just this morning at the mall. Thinking I was buying an educational item that would also keep Ava busy for a few minutes, I bought her a watch at the Gap. HUGE MISTAKE. The rest of my shopping trip went something like this. "Mom, it's 11:37." "Mom, it's 11:40" "Mom, we've been in here for ten minutes." "Mom, 12 minutes have gone by." "Mom, it's almost 12:00" "Mom, it's 12:00" "Mom, it's 12:02" "Mom, it's 12:04" "Mom, we've been in here for 30 minutes." "Mom, it's 12:15" "Mom, it's 12:17".....NO JOKE, every 2 minutes I got an update until I said finally said something super-nurturing like, "AVA!!!! I DON'T CARE WHAT TIME IT IS!!!!!!!!! ENOUGH ALREADY!!!!"</p><p>6. For gift giving and receiving occasions, you must practice the appropriate responses with your children. Mine liked to say things like, "Awww, I already have this." Or,"I didn't really want this." Or my personal favorite, "Is that IT??" After opening 237 Christmas presents. So you must role-play this scenario with your children and teach them to just say thank-you even if they don't particularly like it or they already have it. It seems like the perfect plan until they open something at their birthday party, turn to you in front of everyone and say, "I smile and say thank you, even if I don't like it. Right Mommy?" (Ava, age 3)</p><p>7. Most importantly, don't feed them much or let them sleep. If you do, they'll grow-up - and who really wants that to happen?</p><br /><br /><br /><br /><p><br /></p><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div></div></div></div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-6972236442088124762011-02-22T07:39:00.007-05:002011-02-24T17:27:07.171-05:00Hello? The lights are on, but is anyone home?This is no joke, this is a serious matter. I am really starting to wonder if my girls experienced some sort of head trauma during their cesarean births. Between the August 18, 2009 blog about Ava and ages (check it out in the archives!) , the February 14th "Bonkers" blog and the Feb 5th "Is today tomorrow?" conversation with Maddy....I have some legitimate concerns. And this latest story definitely confirms my suspicions. We got new phones and answering machine, so I thought to myself, "What's cuter than these two little meatballs leaving the outgoing message!?" So I round-em up, tell them the good news, and they're all excited. Ava's going to say "You have reached the Demers family, please leave a message." And Maddy, ON HER OWN, decides she'll say "Have a nice day!" (OMG, so cute, it's like a Hallmark commercial filming right in my own home). Ok, outgoing message <strong>TAKE ONE</strong>:<br />Ava: You have reached the Demers family, please leave a message.<br />Maddy: (silence)<br />Stop the recording.....we go over our lines again. We get it all squared away, everyone's ready to go now.<br />outtgoing message <strong>TAKE TWO</strong>:<br />Ava: You have reached the Demers family, please leave a message.<br />Maddy: (pause) (then a whisper...)you have reached the demers family.... <br /><strong>CUT</strong><br />Me: Maddy!!! What are supposed to say????<br />Maddy: (Sweet happy little voice) HAVE A NICE DAY!!!! :)<br />Me: That's right!!!! Ok, let's try again, Ava says (blah, blah, blah)...we practice again. Awesome.<br />I press the record button....outgoing message <strong>TAKE THREE</strong><br />Ava: You have reached the Demers family, please leave a message.<br />Maddy: (silence).<br />Me: Maddy!?!??!? Do you not want to do this??? Ava can say the whole thing if you don't want to do it.<br />She says she doesn't want to do it. So we record Ava doing both parts of the message....outgoing message <strong>TAKE FOUR</strong>. Got it, mission accomplished. Or, maybe not....<br />Now Maddy starts crying, "<strong><em>I</em></strong> WAS SUPPOSED TO SAY 'HAVE A NICE DAYYYYYYYYY'!!!!"<br />Jesus, Mary and Joseph - you have GOT to be kidding me.<br />Outgoing message <strong>TAKE FIVE</strong><br />Ava: (blah, blah, blah...you know what she says)<br />Maddy: (meak little crying whiney voice) have. a. nice. day.<br />Me: MADDDDDDDDDDDDYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!????? Do you want to do this or not!?!?!?<br />We practice again, she knows I mean business now, I am definitely about to blow a gasket.<br /><strong>TAKE SIX</strong>......finally, I get my message. But here's where the worrisome part comes in.<br />She asks me what this message is for, I try to explain that when someone calls our house they will hear it and leave us a message to call them back. Better yet - I'll show her what I mean. We go in her bedroom and use my cell phone to dial the house phone. Pause....house phone rings. Maddy says: PHONE'S RINGING Mama!<br />Me: I know Maddy, it's us, we're using Mama's phone to call the house phone.<br />Outgoing message plays, she smiles. I tell her what to say..."Hi. Call me back." She repeats me.<br />Daddy (who's playing along) yells from the room with the answering machine, "We have a message!"<br />Maddy: WE DO!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!??! She comes running.<br />Hit play....we hear her message "Hi, Call me back" the message says... and she whispers.....<br />"Who is it??????"Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-57241049094588599082011-02-14T17:32:00.005-05:002011-02-14T17:51:45.035-05:00Going BonkersIt was Sunday night, and I was getting lunches and backpacks ready for Monday morning. In Ava's backpack I find a bag full of tokens...turns out they are from Hampton Beach arcades. So I asked her, "Ava, where did you get these tokens?" She replies nonchalantly, "I made a bet with (friend who shall remain namless) at school and she lost, so she had to give me her tokens." As if that wasn't bad enough (who knew the degenerate gambling gene was heriditary), the conversation that ensued really threw me over the edge:<br />"You need to give these back to her tomorrow."<br />"Why? They're not money."<br />"Right, but they are tokens for Hampton beach, it's like money for the arcades there."<br />"But they don't work at Bonkers."<br />"Yeah, I know, they're for Hampton Beach, give them back to her at school tomorrow."<br />"WHY MOM? -- THEY DON'T WORK AT BONKERS!!!" (now she's giving me an attitude, she's irritated that I'm not getting it -- but really she's the one who doesn't get it.)<br />"AVA!!!! I'm not talking about Bonkers, I'm talking about HAMMMMMPTOOON BEEEEEACH in NEW HAMPSHIRE," I stretch the words out so it's clear as can be.<br />"Mom, I'm telling you, they don't work at Bonkers, why do I have to give them back?"<br />"Ava, first of all you shouldn't be making bets in school, secondly these are tokens, which are good to play games at HAMPTON BEACH WHERE THIS GIRL OBVIOUSLY GOES - THAT'S HOW SHE GOT THEM, SO JUST GIVE THEM BACK TO HER TOMORROW!!!!"<br />"But Mom, they don't work at Bonkers." (Sweet Mary Mother of Jesus, give me the strength)<br />This is no exaggeration, I was looking at Rolly for help but he was just shaking his head.<br />Now I'm a raving lunatic, "AM I SPEAKING ENGLISH???? WHO said anything about Bonkers!?!?? I'm gonna go Bonkers in a minute!!!! I'm talking about HHHHAAAAMMMMMPPPTON BEEEEAAACCCHHHHH tokens, it has nothing to do with Bonkers (now I'm saying it very slow and loud as if she was hard of hearing). Needless to say, she comes home today, the tokens are still in her backpack. At least no one's lunch money is in there.Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-74442374258944620042011-02-05T08:04:00.008-05:002011-02-05T19:54:13.095-05:00The Sun Will Come Out....TOMORROW<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUJu6FobfsTPoj7VbrSOvhA4a89pOXWyeTnQuC1nAxPdvPPdZA7LwxCmYApooZrPaz1xFF0aTkZUv1K6wjXV0OaNGw9JnbBdw9iCz4Xo10u9Sb2il0WwPKCxa6lvN8E0Tbok05r67sXZYE/s1600/DSC_0405.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570196497273466930" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUJu6FobfsTPoj7VbrSOvhA4a89pOXWyeTnQuC1nAxPdvPPdZA7LwxCmYApooZrPaz1xFF0aTkZUv1K6wjXV0OaNGw9JnbBdw9iCz4Xo10u9Sb2il0WwPKCxa6lvN8E0Tbok05r67sXZYE/s320/DSC_0405.JPG" /></a><br /><div>Conversations with Madelyn could be it's own blog - but it would need a live feed because she's always saying something funny and ten minutes later I can't remember what she said. I tried extra hard to remember this little snippet from 15 minutes in the car yesterday.</div><br /><div>From her little seat in the back I hear,</div><br /><br /><div><strong>"Hmmmmmmm."</strong> (big sigh)...pause..."<strong>Daddy is SO handsome."</strong> (note to self: have Maddy's vision checked ASAP)</div><br /><div><strong>"Mum, when I am big, will I drive?"</strong> "Yes," I reply.</div><br /><div>"<strong>When I'm a mummy, will I know where to go?" "</strong>Yes."</div><br /><div>Excited, "<strong>I <em>WILL</em>!!!!!!!!??????? I will know how to get to Papa's house in Chelsea?"</strong></div><br /><div><strong>"Mum, when I get big will I wear a BIG bathing suit-like a mom?" </strong>(oh wait, her vision must be fine after all.)</div><br /><div><strong></strong></div><br /><div>Me, trying to change the subject, "Maddy, Nana is coming to watch you tomorrow!"</div><br /><div><strong>"SHE IS!?!?!? Is TODAY tomorrow?"</strong></div><br /><div>"No honey, tomorrow, when you wake up."</div><br /><div>"<strong>OH, tomorrow is today - YAY!!!"</strong></div><br /><div>No Maddy, not today, tomorrow. We have to eat dinner, go to bed and sleep and then tomorrow when you wake up Nana will come to watch you."</div><br /><div><strong>"TODAY Nana will come???"</strong> "No, "Tomorrow." <strong>"Is it tomorrow now?"</strong></div><br /><div>(this is starting to feel like "Who's on First").....so finally I give it up, "YEAH, YEAH, today is tomorrow, whatever." <strong>"YAY!!! Nana's coming!"</strong></div><div><strong></strong> </div><div><strong>UPDATE: </strong>Maddy wakes up the next morning and says, "MOM, is today the tomorrow when Nana comes?" She doesn't forget, that's for sure!</div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-88310507630241512942011-02-02T17:47:00.004-05:002011-02-05T08:04:41.048-05:00If I Only Had a Heart....I made an amazing and enlightening discovery today...despite her self-indulgent, never satisfied, center of her own universe attitude -- it turns out my 7 year actually does have a HEART. After hearing a story from her friend about a homeless man she had seen, she proceeded to make a bulleted list of things the homeless man needs. I have duplicated her list below exactly as she wrote it...<br /><ul><li>bug spary</li><li>hat</li><li>gloves</li><li>jeans</li><li>jacket</li><li>cake/browns/cupcakes</li><li>house</li><li>money/bed</li><li>stuff he likes</li><li>pillow</li><li>blacket</li><li>chothes</li><li>lights</li><li>kicten</li><li>closet</li><li>pencil/marker/crayon</li><li>pen/paper</li><li>shoes</li><li>movies/TV</li><li>games/scrabble</li><li>clock</li><li>hiking bag</li><li>pajamas</li><li>big stick (I had to ask about this one - it's to ward off any animals that come near him)</li><li>boots</li><li>snow stuff</li></ul><p>At the end it said, "We will do this in spring!" Oh my goodness, such a proud mama moment.</p><p>This is coming from a girl who wouldn't share a tic tac with her little sister, just for a little background information.</p>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-10841169857854907882011-01-12T15:05:00.010-05:002011-01-12T15:30:02.752-05:00Betty Freakin Crocker<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigSZYTuRsaUMgRs2g40EIefipV2BhqD3a8tfYh6y0siXf2eMnqVwNogjBKoBqL8YmziLhEyEhbE9_QXFUluIsD4gs0wmsaNyV8oFmlK5AMmWo-7VJU3tlcGbyUxSVF6UgyDJa3V2pAk_WR/s1600/DSC_0342.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5561399272556289666" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigSZYTuRsaUMgRs2g40EIefipV2BhqD3a8tfYh6y0siXf2eMnqVwNogjBKoBqL8YmziLhEyEhbE9_QXFUluIsD4gs0wmsaNyV8oFmlK5AMmWo-7VJU3tlcGbyUxSVF6UgyDJa3V2pAk_WR/s320/DSC_0342.JPG" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgehLAAzzBcA2YULMtm2wteWdH1iulvv9LlZcN59zuEpouVgdN2XhFh87QV99KenLbhlEPj6kLTUY5wvaYgOWKdUVLmp5rBTyiSAUp6tGtNPJpEt741yGym5NABLRg8ltJQ1bEs9ax8pqKx/s1600/DSC_0345.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5561399029053622194" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgehLAAzzBcA2YULMtm2wteWdH1iulvv9LlZcN59zuEpouVgdN2XhFh87QV99KenLbhlEPj6kLTUY5wvaYgOWKdUVLmp5rBTyiSAUp6tGtNPJpEt741yGym5NABLRg8ltJQ1bEs9ax8pqKx/s320/DSC_0345.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJtxb-IaTSpZ9L3p1l9839R5a2xumcvejUbcjYF7K90FCBMCNM8iIyEA4h8oq03XWvFBW86EugC8lJde1umau5FAw7jyvayykA3-ay68AE9nCyXD5hGAwxTvU142do98LRZfwBp6wi__xs/s1600/DSC_0346.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5561398927934444626" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJtxb-IaTSpZ9L3p1l9839R5a2xumcvejUbcjYF7K90FCBMCNM8iIyEA4h8oq03XWvFBW86EugC8lJde1umau5FAw7jyvayykA3-ay68AE9nCyXD5hGAwxTvU142do98LRZfwBp6wi__xs/s320/DSC_0346.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic4c3UxVMl5xS5bWdEPMkklHhmKl2jscwszEaSmmojNr45azO9jqPwtZ0bJpgManxnIRVJgkGQLH07E9zTtLCdeL2LcN2WrfWI7wUqGkrw1ZoHuXRtIFjrJpvysiHAoNiaLOQOvm-lLfAO/s1600/DSC_0342.JPG"></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><div>The turkey roasting went so well that last night I decided, "What better to do on a snow day then bake a cake with the girls." So I told them we'd be baking Daddy's favorite cake -- yellow cake with chocolate frosting. From the other room Daddy mumbles something about his favorite cake being yellow cake with <em>vanilla</em> frosting and mommy should know that after 17 years of dating and ten years of marriage. But whatever, I digress. SO the baking got off to a great start. The kids washed their hands, took turns pouring in the water, oil, eggs. We were sharing and measuring and mixing, it was like Betty Crocker and mother-of-the-year together in one kitchen. Then came the only part I actually had to do without their help. Remove the two round 8 inchers from the oven and transport them to the cooling rack. The first half went smoothly and I had visions of my cake looking just like that picture on the cover of the Betty Crocker box. The second half, on the other hand, stuck in the pan (YES MOM, I greased it first). I had to shake rattle and pound this thing to dislodge it, which of course broke it into quite a few pieces. I still wasn't discouraged. I now had visions of using the frosting to repair the damage and get this thing all stuck back together - good as new. That plan shit the bed when I attempted to frost the top of the bad half, which was all crumbly, and made things worse. Then I broke the good half while transferring it onto the mountain of cake mess I had on the plate. I persevered and STILL thought I could manage to frost this sad excuse for a cake. I can't tell a lie, I thought of blaming it on the children. But truthfully, I think they could have done a better job. (and besides, they both would have ratted me out). They weren't thrilled when they saw the disaster on the counter (see photo) but the best part came when I placed the cake in front of them. Ava got hers first and she wrinkled up her face, which prompted mini-me (Maddy) to say in her sternest voice, "YOU EAT that RIGHT now." When Maddy got her cake she dove right in. (thatta girl!). Would love to write more, but I have to get ready for my job interview at Cake's For Occasions. Once they see this beauty, they are sure to be calling.</div></div></div></div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-62931645687108486142011-01-02T08:37:00.013-05:002011-01-02T20:48:19.409-05:00Me and Mr. T<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqpYaUVPzF_PhuBn6f-d0yJ1CkPn0lYxHUM5nTKu-cFRMN1km1osmTEm1ICpwwcNGBXV-PHZv_4Fh0fkljaz7aA9gFgUbLCYZJGjkUMKsbjcNylHrZx_M363tSyt3VrLJKQAJrnuc0cHAe/s1600/DSC_0329.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557764492006528818" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqpYaUVPzF_PhuBn6f-d0yJ1CkPn0lYxHUM5nTKu-cFRMN1km1osmTEm1ICpwwcNGBXV-PHZv_4Fh0fkljaz7aA9gFgUbLCYZJGjkUMKsbjcNylHrZx_M363tSyt3VrLJKQAJrnuc0cHAe/s320/DSC_0329.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div>Just when I thought the holiday season was officially over, and I had sat my fat ass down at every friend and family member's dinner table from Thanksgiving to New Year's Day....I had the bright idea to host one last Xmas party with some of my family that my Mom usually hosts at her house. This would have been fine if I had also decided to cook sauce and meatballs, or eggplant parm, or chicken ziti and broccoli (basically the three things I know how to make) or even order some food. But instead, I thought cooking a 22lb turkey would be a swell idea. Only problem was that I had never cooked one before.SO I gave myself a little pep talk first, reminding myself what a smart, capable woman I am...reasoning that I had been 8th grade valedictorian (even though there were only 13 graduates in my class), 1990 Teen Miss Chelsea (which I tied with someone and had to share the coveted title), I have a Master's Degree, and that I used to work as a United States Special Agent/Criminal Investigator. Roast a TURKEY? Piece of cake. So I had this bird (let's call him Mr. T) sitting in a shallow roasting pan defrosting in the basement fridge for 5 days. I have to wake up early to get this monster prepared and in the oven by 8 a.m.. The fun started right away when I took Mr. T out of the fridge and underneath the pan was a large gooey pink puddle....which of course dripped all over the fridge and left a trail all the way up the stairs and to the kitchen sink. I plopped Mr. T onto the pan roasting rack which I had in the sink. Now came the part that I dreaded - the real reason why I have never cooked one of these things before. Reaching in to take out the neck and the giblets. (gag). I was totally prepared for this job....I had several plastic bags from the supermarket. One to use as a glove over my hand while I reached in, and the others to triple-bag whatever the %^%$% I was about to remove from Mr. T. So I closed my eyes and went in for the kill. Only problem....I couldn't find anything. It felt pretty icy in there, so I thought maybe this bulging bag of guts was frozen somewhere inside there. I decided to prop Mr. T up and run some cold water right into his nasty neck hole (see photo). At this point, I have no choice but to call and ask my Mom for a turkey tutorial. At first she sounds completely annoyed at my apparent stupidity and inability to locate the guts-- like she may even want a refund for my college education. But by the end she is laughing her azz off and my father is in the background yelling, "I can't believe this, hasn't she ever cooked a turkey before?" My mother assures me that there HAS to be something in there, a neck, a bag with the organs, etc. At this point I knew I needed to get brave, lose the shopping bag mitt and check this mo-fo out once and for all. For this, I needed a flashlight, because I really couldn't see too well in there. (See flashlight in photo). Now, let me assure you, there was all kinds of nasty looking shit in there, but none of it was loose, and nothing was coming out - I was really tugging around in there. Then my mother drops a bomb on me. She tells me to check the other hole. This news leaves me speechless, but all kinds of bad words are circling in my head. WHAT other hole does Mr.T have!?!?!? I turn wet, slippery, 22lb Mr. T over and my mother tells me to lift up the skin flap. I throw-up in my mouth a little at this point. <em>THE</em> skin flap? This turkey butt had many many fatty skin folds, none of which I enjoyed peeking under. FINALLY I peel open the right one and find Mr. T's glove compartment and sure enough there is a little bag with a couple of dark colored organs in it. (gag). Never did find his neck, which I am actually very happy about, and I would like to thank whoever it was at the turkey farm that apparently forgot to stuff half of Mr.T's body parts back inside. I did get one last nice little surprise when I unhooked Mr. T's turkey legs from their little vice, and there was his little neck stump where they chopped his head off (complete with the chopped bones sticking right out of it). I tugged on this a little bit, just to make sure it was supposed to stay on there and it was on there pretty tight. Which brings me to my next point...if Mr. T were still alive he definitely would have called the police or a perhaps his therapist because there is no way around the fact that I had assaulted this putrid piece of poultry. <strong>One hour later</strong>, I had Mr. T safely in the oven under his tin-foil tent with two celery stalks and a quartered orange sticking out of his neck hole. The only other problem I encountered was nearly causing a grease fire while attempting to baste the turkey. Apparently I needed to squeeze the bulb a little more gently, as to not spray the entire oven with Mr. T's juices. Fast forward to dinner time, I actually cooked a perfectly edible turkey. Maybe some of my blog readers who were at my house today can vouch for me. And for the rest of you, if you have always driven your fat azz to someone else's house for Thanksgiving and never roasted your own turkey, you should be sending a thank you note to your hostess, cause that task is a bit more involved than I ever realized! </div><br /><div>PS: If you look closely at the picture, in the background you'll see an "Icee Maker. " I guess Santa talks a lot of smack in his letters. (See Pen Pals with Santa post 11/16)</div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-88222493110627042482010-11-30T17:04:00.005-05:002010-11-30T17:16:36.058-05:00Naughty Girl<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgybTIhxnVQIEx0TdmllAoV14KHJllagdz5fswIEslAhVF-qjC-nCBfoH0sdVoDMuC7JX3LB7gIrYq0J718-UbEoCduz08JzPLKcnCX9QaQ0uivQm5xhHZrOmElZqh0pPGny-rJpsg-gzYU/s1600/DSC_0115.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545469361020798610" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgybTIhxnVQIEx0TdmllAoV14KHJllagdz5fswIEslAhVF-qjC-nCBfoH0sdVoDMuC7JX3LB7gIrYq0J718-UbEoCduz08JzPLKcnCX9QaQ0uivQm5xhHZrOmElZqh0pPGny-rJpsg-gzYU/s320/DSC_0115.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsm51RBA65ZLBPH7mTXNAL9UKUT8g7DCiau8VcmXhWPf4QxXh7oucCjq4aEUhIse4HL3lHx4uIW13N2DuDi88e8Tm52IhjQDaCaG2oQwe2xxIVp5KJ4c3XdqqmeQUxno8hDdwJpc_h-_nI/s1600/DSC_0114.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 213px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545469270010534962" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsm51RBA65ZLBPH7mTXNAL9UKUT8g7DCiau8VcmXhWPf4QxXh7oucCjq4aEUhIse4HL3lHx4uIW13N2DuDi88e8Tm52IhjQDaCaG2oQwe2xxIVp5KJ4c3XdqqmeQUxno8hDdwJpc_h-_nI/s320/DSC_0114.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div>Let's recap the last 20 minutes with Madelyn....</div><div></div><div> </div><div>4:45 pm...."Maddy, what did you do in preschool today?" She replies, making spit bubbles in her mouth, "Blew spitballs."</div><div> </div><div>4:50 pm....playing with the dollhouse. Mom doll is pushing twin dolls in the double stroller. Mom doll (Madelyn) says to the twin babies, "Sit down or I'm going to SMACK YOU!"<br /></div><div>4:55 pm....I leave the room momentarily and it's suddenly very quiet. TOO quiet. "MADDDDDDDDYYYYYY, WHAT are you doing?" I ask - but get no reply.<br /></div><div>Oh nothing mom, just stripped down to my undies, got a stool, brought it over to the tree and now I'm touching the ornaments you told me not to touch. (See photo)</div><div> </div><div>5:00 pm...she sticks her baby doll in the corner for a "SIX MINUTE time out!"<br /></div><div>WHERE is she learning this stuff?????? (Don't look at me!)</div></div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-55901455573496280612010-11-20T07:15:00.013-05:002010-11-29T22:00:50.648-05:00More letters from the Big Guy<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiA1a_mNjEvdmDu9YuM2NixuesBOBUN_kaibP1LHqOCyfaPKh5nK_6b62Rn8U-iAGIHuNFVKAEmmqX0VlJXF9wGv2yYjIJKVCXf_bDnRXKFrby3_Krfy2BpasTcS49gFsBYMzyUZonkJ9FV/s1600/DSC_0029.JPG"></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaWkmjjEoUXi8mJLus_KOS5EkAMemlbneuKCQyq262pRpRbJtdfDuQnwYaub04LIY6UZdF81V9BLFHLXd31KhP3Qe0TzirbOyB60ncwkDC6OaCVUF8mfKQtEZwDSRdFKNUWj4tPqnf9oYz/s1600/DSC_0028.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 213px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545171321884895762" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaWkmjjEoUXi8mJLus_KOS5EkAMemlbneuKCQyq262pRpRbJtdfDuQnwYaub04LIY6UZdF81V9BLFHLXd31KhP3Qe0TzirbOyB60ncwkDC6OaCVUF8mfKQtEZwDSRdFKNUWj4tPqnf9oYz/s320/DSC_0028.JPG" /></a><br /><br /></div><br /><div>Dear Demers Girls, </div><br /><div>Thank you so much for visiting one of my "helpers" at the mall. Santa's never quite sure who to hire for helpers, as some may very well be major perverts who get their jollies off having small children on their laps. But I know your Mom, like most moms, tucks this thought deep into her subconscience just so she can get the adorable Christmas picture she so desires.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Ava, your Mom and I were wondering when you were going to wonder if that was the REAL Santa at the mall, so I'm glad to see you finally using your noggin and inquiring about this, as you were a little behind the 8-ball on this one. Although, you must know that I, in fact, AM 100% REAL and you must never stop believing in me because it will break your mother's heart. Pretend if you must for a year or two, but whatever you do, DON'T tell your little sister or I'll have to break your fing -- I mean ----I'll have to put you on my naughty list. (Forgot who I was there for a second).</div><br /><div>I am so glad that you and your sister thought of <em>even</em> <em>more</em> things I could bring you for Christmas, but I think you've met the per capita quota for gifts. I was truly surprised to hear you ask for an"Easy Bake Oven," especially since you didn't even write it on the Christmas List that you mailed to me approximately 2 minutes before coming to sit on my lap. Please refer to my previous letter -- item #9, as "easy bake ovens" are specifically mentioned in the "crappy tasting food items" section of gifts I don't bring. You asked for it last year too, give it up already. And while we're on the topic, Santa forgot to tell you that I don't bring American Girl dolls anymore either. See the cute ones you're holding in this picture, try paying a little more attention to these dolls first! Santa sees everything, so I know it was your Mom who got those dolls dressed in their Christmas dresses and insisted that you hold them for the picture...nice touch though.</div><br /><div>Before I go, I must ask Ava one last question. In early October your Mom asked you what you wanted for Christmas this year and you replied without so much as a moment's hesitation, "One of those bags you sit on and air comes out." (whoopee cushion) How on Earth did you go from <strong><em>THAT</em></strong> to an Ipod Touch? </div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Much Love,</div><br /><div>Santa Claus</div><br /><div>PS: An Ipod touch falls under item #6 on the list of gifts Santa never brings "Items your Mom and Dad don't have!"<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><br /><div></div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-11371404071703334812010-11-16T18:12:00.007-05:002010-11-16T20:50:37.269-05:00Pen Pals with SantaDear Demers Girls,<br />As Christmas quickly approaches, I felt there was no time like the present to let you know that Santa never ever brings the following Christmas gifts:<br />1. Drum sets<br /><br />2. Make-up<br /><br />3. Dogs, cats, or rabbits<br /><br />4. Things with more than 10 pieces<br /><br />5. Things that have to be assembled<br /><br />6. Things that your mom and dad don't have (lap tops, ipods, blackberry phones)<br /><br />7. Things that are hard to find and therefore exploited on Ebay and Craiglist. (Remember those Zhu Zhu pets I managed to <em>make in my toy shop</em> last year.....yeah, where are they now? Enough said).<br /><br />8. Things that will cause any destruction to the household furnishings (scissors, paint, sharpies)<br /><br />9. Things that involve you making crappy-tasting food items like: Easy Bake ovens, snow cone machines, etc.<br /><br />I realize that this eliminates most things on your Christmas list, but rules are rules. And if any of your friends say that they have received any of these gifts from me, they are lying.<br /><br /><br />Much Love,<br />Santa Claus<br /><br /><strong><em>What items does Santa ban in your your house?</em></strong>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-80903218325934637972010-11-13T07:57:00.010-05:002010-11-15T18:40:04.524-05:00Update<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRaJXf3DcT15Sb917i8XJXjoGpdpqDYCzKHwd6I-CyrsLWhRs3aKvv4B-mJjRxnC40XNwErXkyG6HND8EsKxXcPE8cNLszh4Fni98wnezdmRsnZ07WsifEOzR7gGUJ7BkObXHET83lzowB/s1600/DSC_0566.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539925300062037426" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRaJXf3DcT15Sb917i8XJXjoGpdpqDYCzKHwd6I-CyrsLWhRs3aKvv4B-mJjRxnC40XNwErXkyG6HND8EsKxXcPE8cNLszh4Fni98wnezdmRsnZ07WsifEOzR7gGUJ7BkObXHET83lzowB/s320/DSC_0566.JPG" /></a><br /><div><strong>An update on the last 3 blog entries...</strong></div><br /><br /><div>1. Friday came, (the day after Veteran's Day holiday) and I had to drag Ava out of her bed for school. But Saturday she was the first one up, again. I'm just glad that this is the biggest issue I'll ever have to deal with when it comes to her. Parenting just gets easier as they get older. Right?</div><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><div>2. I never did get around to writing a <em>real</em> pretend letter from Santa asking for JB Jacks return to the North Pole until December. (The other letter I wrote was not <em>really</em> for the children. Since my husband actually had to ask me if I was leaving that letter for them - I thought there might be others out there who were wondering the same thing. I thought it was pretty obvious, but maybe no one gets my humor after all!?!??) In any event, turns out I've been creeping around the house each night hiding Jingle Bell Jack for no reason. The kids have already forgotten about him. Perfect foreshadowing to the events of Dec. 26th when the novelty of all their new toys will have worn off as well. I think I did find a way to rekindle Ava's interest in JB Jack though (see photo). She looks like she is having sweet dreams too, poor kid. (Looks like mother of the year will have to wait just one more year).</div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-14702425222712519352010-11-11T08:04:00.000-05:002010-11-11T08:57:21.557-05:00Thank a Veteran, Punish your daughter<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaPoe0rkYfofoU-RRLnp2VEQDeeeUxtvRgCIhQTeUV9rbMkeI7lsmBby43_Ek4VfA0YdG-0qItDRo15Q2dxAmqb8tDL3BSeYqPA1Q_wsE8Q-3yhj0-LVbINYRUJt0sP2q3RrXs_xUtK5RV/s1600/DSC_0060_r1.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 213px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5538287559236418802" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaPoe0rkYfofoU-RRLnp2VEQDeeeUxtvRgCIhQTeUV9rbMkeI7lsmBby43_Ek4VfA0YdG-0qItDRo15Q2dxAmqb8tDL3BSeYqPA1Q_wsE8Q-3yhj0-LVbINYRUJt0sP2q3RrXs_xUtK5RV/s320/DSC_0060_r1.JPG" /></a> On the first day of starting this blog I vowed to only tell true stories (see archives!) but today I vow to not even <span style="color:#000000;">exaggerate...although that promise may only apply to today's blog (come on, give me something to work with here). So here goes.... Every.Single.Solitary day I rip my 7 year old out of her bed by her feet. I start the gentle awakening process at around 6:50 a.m. by opening her bedroom door, turning on her light, pulling her shades up and taking her covers off. </span><span style="color:#000000;">I end the unsuccessful gentle awakening process at approximately 7:20 (school bus comes at 7:45) when I tear the covers off again grab her feet and pull her out of her bed. I then carry her stiff, lifeless body into the bathroom where I undress her and position her on the toilet seat. I leave her there to continue getting myself ready for work. I could return in ten minutes, or a week later (oops, I couldn't even keep my new promise for one blog) - either way she's still sitting there no matter how long I'm gone. I then position her at the sink to brush her teeth and hair. All the while I am ranting and raving posing one empty threat after another....pretending to hear the school bus coming, threatening to cancel every activity she has planned from now until New Year's, even resorting to "you'll go to bed tonight without your supper" (clearly this worked for parents of the 1950's)...all of which to no avail. On Saturdays, I drag her out of bed to go to her sister's dance class, on Sunday I drag her out of bed to go to CCD (WHAT KID doesn't jump out of bed for THAT!?!?). BUT THEN... came TODAY. Thursday. Veteran's Day. No school, no work, no dance, no religious education. A day to sleep-in and rejuvenate oneself from a busy week. Did I have to drag her out of bed today? Funny you should ask. NO, I didn't. She was up, on her own, at the crack of azz while the rest of us were sleeping in a completely quiet house. Seriously!?!? Does this happen at your house?<br /></span><br />While I'm up - I might as well thank a veteran. My #1 veteran...my Dad...who at 19 years old, fought in a thankless war where most of the people he was fighting for didn't want him there and the people back home were protesting too. My dad, who 40 years later, still carries so much of that war around with him. Dad, I hope that someday you will find some peace, but I know you are a changed man because of your experiences. I also hope the day comes that you will let me write about it. xoxoxoxoxoKeri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-65366454818202117522010-11-07T20:16:00.001-05:002010-11-07T20:54:12.652-05:00Hit the Road JackI needed some way to not have to hide the elf every night from now until Xmas....so what better excuse to pack Jack away than a letter from the old Mr. Claus himself?<br />*********************************************************************************<br />Dear Demers Girls,<br /><br />Thank you so much for adopting Jingle Bell Jack, he has had a lovely time staying at your home so far and he has filled me in as to what's been going on with you and your family. I would like to address some of my concerns so that we can see some improvement before the big C day.<br /><br />Ava, you must make a better effort to get up and get ready for school in the morning. Your stalling, whining and complaining is surely going to cause your poor, hard-working mother to have a nervous breakdown. She has already developed a nervous twitch in her eye. I realize you are the product of two non-morning people, but surely you can try a little harder to brush your teeth and hair and present yourself at the breakfast nook all dressed and ready for school. PS: the clothes your mom picks out for you are super cool, so save yourself the aggravation and just wear them. You may not admit this until you're out of college, but I want to tell you something now and you can file it away for the future, Moms are always right!<br /><br />Madelyn, you are quite the character my dear. But you are only 3, and you really shouldn't be using the word "stupid" as often as you do. Just yesterday JB Jack told me the story of how you had your Elmo towel on your head and you said to Jen, "Jen did I used to wear this towel when I was a baby?" To which she replied, "Yessss, you did. And you looked soooooo cute, I just wanted to pinch your cheeks." And then you ruined the moment by saying, "Yeah, now I just look stupid." Despite the fact that you caused a grown woman to cry with laughter and almost pee her pants- this kind of language is simply not becoming of a sweet little 3 year old girl. PS: I need you to narrow down your Xmas list by naming maybe one or two things in the toy catalogue that you actually DON'T WANT....that would be easier. Thanks honey.<br /><br />Rolly, you really need to stop checking the bank account online while your wife is at the mall. Your poor wife works full-time and then comes home to nurture your needy children. Shopping is one of the only pleasures she gets out of life. It really takes the joy out of it when you are already aware of the purchases by the time she pulls in the driveway, she really wants to surprise you.<br /><br />Keri, keep up the good work. JB says you're like a regular wonder-woman and could possibly be up for mother of the year in addition to teacher of the year. Although, he says you have banned him from your room as well (like Ava), I hope there's nothing naughty going on in there that you are hiding from me.<br /><br />Well, Demers family, I am sorry to say that I need Jingle Bell Jack to come back and help me at the North Pole until the end of November. You see with the recession, I had to lay off a bunch of the teacher elf aids at the elf academy, and with the No Elf Left Behind (NELB) act all of my elves are supposed to be proficient by 2014 so I need JB Jack to come back and help tutor some of the elves. I will make sure he's back by December 1st. Thank you for your cooperation!<br /><br />With Love,<br />Santa ClausKeri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-18032262578298821092010-11-07T19:24:00.000-05:002010-11-07T20:13:20.386-05:00Jingle Bell Jack<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2fN7s6VIceLOaQOGqgvzxZpidA23XbFDMkhEHLeMCD6iF1vnSlbcSjkZrXxUrpToZ3UMjVNp0wvKorg6nMKCXUsNM-SCHW-pkPbhBIoIQoTtjNyl7JcFdn68VGzxewR9aGqE9dN1Uqkuz/s1600/elf_withpackage_color.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 236px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5536980005630049746" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2fN7s6VIceLOaQOGqgvzxZpidA23XbFDMkhEHLeMCD6iF1vnSlbcSjkZrXxUrpToZ3UMjVNp0wvKorg6nMKCXUsNM-SCHW-pkPbhBIoIQoTtjNyl7JcFdn68VGzxewR9aGqE9dN1Uqkuz/s320/elf_withpackage_color.jpg" /></a><br /><div>Well, the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">Demers</span> family finally has a son (albeit, adopted) and he goes by "Jingle Bell Jack." (creatively named by Ava and Maddy). He's the Elf on a Shelf (we're a little late on this phenomenon, but finally it was something blog-worthy). For those of you with post-Santa aged children....let me build some background for you....the elf on a shelf is a little elf character and picture book. The story has it that the elf flies back to the North Pole each night and let's Santa know if you're behaving (kids only, no worries). Then he perches in a new spot and the kiddies have to find him in the morning. He comes all inclusive with an adoption certificate signed by Santa Claus himself. To the normal child, this brings additional excitement and enjoyment to the already joyful holiday season and to the normal parent, this brings one more thing to remember during the most hectic time of the year (moving him each night....because, he's actually not magic at all, it's just pretend). Now to OUR child....who likes to contemplate the smallest details of life and worry herself into a tizzy, the Elf brings yet a new form of anxiety. After reading the picture book, I placed the Elf on the mantel (which was a rookie mistake: it's MUCH too soon to start these foolish "move the elf in the night" antics). I then answered (as best I could, not knowing how this Elf magic really works) a plethora of Ava's questions regarding the logistics of how the elf got in and out of the house, how he got to the North Pole and back etc. Shortly thereafter, while the rest of us had moved on to something else, I hear Ava in the living room whispering to the elf, asking (PLEADING) with him not appear in her room overnight. She clearly marked some boundaries in the hallway that he was not to go past and she looked at him with such hope in her eyes - looking for some sign that he understood what she was saying. She went over these plans again with "<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">JB</span> Jack" about 10 times before she went to bed. Now for the normal parents, this would cause great concern and perhaps a reconsideration of this new addition to the family. But for US, it was pure hysteria. We both chuckled in the other room, laughing harder and harder <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">everytime</span> we heard her in there talking to him. She asked us for a banana right before bedtime, so of course I had <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">JB</span> Jack hold the banana in his hands and I brought it into her room and gave him a tour....and she once again told him he could look around now, but he couldn't come back later. Although we had evil thoughts of poking <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">JB's</span> head through the crack of the door we decided that the cost of therapy would far outweigh the short-lived amusement. Sure enough, Ava sprang out of bed this morning and looked for <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">JB</span>, who was sitting in a new spot in the living room (<strong>1st NIGHT</strong> with the Elf - and I went to bed and forgot to move him, but shockingly enough <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">Rolly</span> remembered). She was overjoyed with his obedience and has already begun to trust him. Maddy, on the other hand - unphased by the presence of this creepy little character woke up and said, "WHERE'S the PRESENTS?" Clearly, she missed some of the details in the story. So JB Jack is supposed to remain with us until Dec. 24th when he flies back with Santa until next year. Supposed to....but I'll have to think of something, that is just TOO many nights and not enough perching spots within the perimeter Ava has roped off.</div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-67876305370878453722010-03-11T20:51:00.000-05:002010-03-11T21:08:59.196-05:00Out of the mouths of babes....Picture this: my little Maddy, head to toe in yellow <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">feetie</span> pajamas, standing by the door rubbing noses with the two doggy-blanket things she sleeps with, <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">binky</span> in her mouth going a mile-a-minute. With pangs in my heart that I have to leave her everyday and go to work, I bend down and kiss her cheek , "Bye Maddy," I say sweetly. The <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">binky</span> stops moving and she replies, "Bye stupid."<br />My mother-in-law and I turn around and face the other way so she won't see us laughing...I compose myself as fast as I can and say, "MADDY! That's not nice! Don't say that to Mama!" And she quickly redeems herself by waving her chubby little fingers, and saying in her sweetest little voice, "Bye <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">Mumma</span>! Bye <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">Mumma</span>!"<br />I laughed all the way to work. Called my Mom and was laughing so hard I couldn't even get the word "stupid" out. I Kept saying, "And then she said....and then she said..."<br />I can't lie, I still chuckle every single time I even think about it. She was so dry, so matter-of-fact, "bye stupid." That's one for the baby book.Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-62509471053884217512010-03-02T16:04:00.000-05:002010-03-02T16:55:33.205-05:00Mom to the RescueI apologize in advance for the bathroom talk, but that's where this story took place , so it was kind of unavoidable. I was in the bathroom getting ready for work this morning when Ava came in to use the toilet. Moments later she was screaming & crying "THERE'S A POOP STUCK in my BUTT!!!! HELP! HELP! Mom, there's a poop and it won't come out!" She was HYSTERICALLY crying so I figured it was the perfect time to lecture her about how eating more fruits and vegetables (see yesterday's blog) would help her with this problem. Well, surprisingly that little pep-talk didn't help with the situation or stop her from crying. I then told her to push really hard and rock back and forth a little bit. Nah, still crying. She then took a big deep breath and blurted out, <strong>"MOM, can you reach in there and grab it for me?"</strong> Now, I have always been one to say, "I'd do anything for my kids..." but this is really where I have to draw the line. Sorry kid. I'll pack you some prunes for snack.<br />___________________________________________________________<br />Fast forward to 3 PM today....when I arrived home to the same kid, HYSTERICALLY crying because her tooth was, <strong>"VERY VERY LOOSE AND WIGGLY and IT HURTS!!!!!"</strong> Now this is her FIFTH wiggly tooth...and out of the four she's lost already, three of them were lost biting an apple. So we know this is a proven method and nothing to freak-out about. But she was carrying on like you <em>wouldn't believe</em>! Being the kind compassionate Mom that I am, I whipped out my cell phone to capture the nonsense on video. Too bad I don't know how to transfer it to my computer. In any event, she's on the video screaming and crying, "<strong>I just want this to be all over with</strong>!" (so dramatic - where on Earth does she get this from anyway?). Next she tries counting to ten and taking a bite of the apple but keeps chickening out (just like she did last night when she attempted to try a piece of broccoli!). Eventually she took a bite, out came the tooth, she spit it all out on the counter and we called it a day. No trying any more veggies at dinner time tonight...I'm just too pooped out.Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-61724437730340955282010-03-01T20:58:00.000-05:002010-03-01T21:32:15.843-05:00Eat your peas please....<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5uZNZsuV9reRRDdTj05cK2p74emLW0W1hawYxVwLKrm4qHjeQq43w1pwxxiJ2Oo00jOmn77DOfC9IfVGyj3cejdNVr8W3jd8iwcIFV6v4CrXJR-vxWfpG-IU6gKJgJp0BIAR-E5GHPqPR/s1600-h/DSC_0491.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5443856333092871218" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5uZNZsuV9reRRDdTj05cK2p74emLW0W1hawYxVwLKrm4qHjeQq43w1pwxxiJ2Oo00jOmn77DOfC9IfVGyj3cejdNVr8W3jd8iwcIFV6v4CrXJR-vxWfpG-IU6gKJgJp0BIAR-E5GHPqPR/s320/DSC_0491.JPG" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1eTkqDcspCYe6_gQ-XLgkuUHRQIUH55U3WBQSau-Ui56k_0yWD0Yhg1r-2mEOT_Tg_l_I_ngszo76gTXK2IDKHp2iNS1X-6EDVd_jOHCMl_hSj4YeB8Tok2ZLfAYAMwe3eUDba_8Qh9MX/s1600-h/DSC_0497.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 213px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5443856323463982338" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1eTkqDcspCYe6_gQ-XLgkuUHRQIUH55U3WBQSau-Ui56k_0yWD0Yhg1r-2mEOT_Tg_l_I_ngszo76gTXK2IDKHp2iNS1X-6EDVd_jOHCMl_hSj4YeB8Tok2ZLfAYAMwe3eUDba_8Qh9MX/s320/DSC_0497.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigzhQjFfvCvTU3PhNMXdpniTxASyELZvMl6CWt-k5GddcjsJ8qyLkkzwYRdTIFeO4JqcQmQCpMim2ndDoZ1UzUMhRdBA8Aw8nneQ0o76t1AMbpwwOrHUBr3Ky9hXvpee5rQQM8lIlEFx_u/s1600-h/DSC_0493.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5443856313795645602" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigzhQjFfvCvTU3PhNMXdpniTxASyELZvMl6CWt-k5GddcjsJ8qyLkkzwYRdTIFeO4JqcQmQCpMim2ndDoZ1UzUMhRdBA8Aw8nneQ0o76t1AMbpwwOrHUBr3Ky9hXvpee5rQQM8lIlEFx_u/s320/DSC_0493.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div>We were standing in the kitchen at my parent's house on Saturday afternoon when my mother decided to make this big announcement, "<strong>YOU KNOW</strong>, your kids don't eat enough fruits and vegetables. They should be eating all different fruits and vegetables at every meal." <em>THIS</em> - from the woman who lets them have 3 popsicles each within the first 5 minutes she's babysitting and NEVER EVER says "No" to anything when it comes to them. So I thought I'd have her put her money where her mouth was..."GATHER ROUND CHILDREN," I announced loudly (no joke)...."Nana is NOW going to feed you some vegetables!" No one came running over, of course, and she had to lean over and put her head down on the counter-top -- laughing so hard she couldn't even stand-up, clearly realizing how ridiculous she was being! So that night I decided I was going to make Mom proud and feed these kids some broccoli, dammit. I heated up some frozen green giant broccoli florets with cheese sauce (sounds gross, but goes great on a baked-potato!) called the kids to the counter and made my second announcement of the day, "TONIGHT...you are going to try some broccoli." I then lied and told them that I used the cheese from the macaroni and cheese package and put it on the broccoli. Ava made a face and Maddy said, "That yucky." I told them both they HAD to try it. Ava put it on her fork....smelled it, licked it lightly, wiped the cheese off with her napkin, inspected it thoroughly and said, "Ok, I'll count to ten..." She nervously counted to ten, brought the fork close to her mouth and then chickened out at the last second. She counted to ten a second time and as I shouted "Just EAT IT will you!?!??!?!" She took the teeniest tiniest little bite and thrashed her tongue around trying to spit it back out. Ridiculous. Maddy watched in horror, and then it was her turn. She also inspected it at every angle, gave it the hairy-eyeball, cried (real tears) and eventually covered her mouth when I took the fork and tried to make her taste it. So I beg of you, tell me this happens in your house!?!?!</div><div>PS: Have they passed legislature naming ketchup as a vegetable yet?</div></div></div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-55236405336432477662010-02-28T13:22:00.001-05:002010-02-28T13:44:49.924-05:00Colorblind<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggd5lschcPT4F348qEK5B6YpQeJlyksBk3R1rezWKubmU6h-9MNIJ-UX5i08pK9yicY_ZQa-r9iqlKD2TGXXRZZw9lO_k3KoZruLb8lN9hI1KkDrsyjN5NFmmwJSIPtJ_Rib0FVzVJmide/s1600-h/DSC_0487.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5443367066513769890" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggd5lschcPT4F348qEK5B6YpQeJlyksBk3R1rezWKubmU6h-9MNIJ-UX5i08pK9yicY_ZQa-r9iqlKD2TGXXRZZw9lO_k3KoZruLb8lN9hI1KkDrsyjN5NFmmwJSIPtJ_Rib0FVzVJmide/s320/DSC_0487.JPG" /></a><br /><div>"Hey, look - Mommy bought you matching t-shirts for St. Patrick's Day!" Maddy says, "<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">YAY</span>! Mine is red and Ava <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">dut</span> a <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">bwue</span> one!" (got a blue one). Clearly, we are having some trouble with colors. So much so that her day care teacher (a former Kindergarten teacher) thinks there could be a problem. She said, "I went over the color white with her, and then I had her look out the window at all the snow and said, 'What color is the snow Maddy?'" Maddy replied, "Red." Yikes.<br /><br />Back at home, an idea popped into my head. So with a hand full of skittles, I held one up and said "Maddy, tell me what color this is and you can have it." And one at a time she miraculously named all her colors. A little motivation goes a long way. ;)<br /><br />My 25 followers have been <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">harassing</span> me for more blogs (and one very special lady sent me a super sweet message about the blog stories 'making her day' - thanks Marie - this one is for you!)...so I thought I'd write down a story that my friends keep asking me to tell over and over again. Not sure if writing it will do it justice, but I'll try! So Ava informed me one morning back in the fall, that when <strong>I </strong>pick out her outfit for school, she wears a sweatshirt over it all day to cover it up. With that she ran off to the bathroom - last chance before heading out for the school bus. So I opened up her backpack and sure enough, there was a hooded sweatshirt. I took it out and crumbled it into a ball and quickly pitched it under the china cabinet as I heard her coming out of the bathroom. She puts her coat on, throws her backpack over her shoulder and opens the front door...then she pauses, looks over her shoulder and says, "Mom.........did you take my sweatshirt out of my backpack?" And with a shit-eating grin I replied, "WHY <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">YESSSSS</span> I did..." and with that I gave her a gentle little shove right onto the front porch and closed the door behind her. And there she was with her little face peeking through the glass pane on the door looking at me with disdain and I gave her a great big wave, "<strong><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">BUH</span> BYE</strong>!!!....have a nice day at school." Ha!! Kid doesn't know who she's dealing with! (Jokes on me, as she probably had 3 more sweatshirts in her <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">cubby</span> at school!) </div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-59747324356990268902009-12-13T02:54:00.000-05:002009-12-13T03:37:01.124-05:00To Quote My Girl Whitney: "Crack is Whack"<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi99BE-kP1MUvUgQYK2lQ2bjfqbHnhPqv0dhUDUMGQazh2jop0MWmKY6MWVMjOB43BLnf7Sjeh_hum9ioBP75fA6sLsN97XdhRI1F3FWTgYHPdWO2c4UjYyfxvKsPRZsoOubc9EQATzhDRF/s1600-h/DSC_0312.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5414632572341975730" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi99BE-kP1MUvUgQYK2lQ2bjfqbHnhPqv0dhUDUMGQazh2jop0MWmKY6MWVMjOB43BLnf7Sjeh_hum9ioBP75fA6sLsN97XdhRI1F3FWTgYHPdWO2c4UjYyfxvKsPRZsoOubc9EQATzhDRF/s320/DSC_0312.JPG" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQ90RJTZvDpyU1hQDrd2qfP18SBt8ACJjlck6Ms3mI0azMCg-LhRYXYFZnLB-qailkEqb765DsVn15MCbcq-vkE-qZKzBqc_RDrEcbTMzeLPIm_iD6a0J94FALCkzfAo6M9SkUD9r77rpM/s1600-h/DSC_0310.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 213px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5414632561382933058" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQ90RJTZvDpyU1hQDrd2qfP18SBt8ACJjlck6Ms3mI0azMCg-LhRYXYFZnLB-qailkEqb765DsVn15MCbcq-vkE-qZKzBqc_RDrEcbTMzeLPIm_iD6a0J94FALCkzfAo6M9SkUD9r77rpM/s320/DSC_0310.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><div>On Thanksgiving Day, I was watching the Macy's parade and came to the sad realization that I will definitely never be a Rockette. Obviously, it would just be way too hard on the kids if I had to live in New York. Since then I have been making mental note of other careers I will never have in this lifetime. Mayor, Sea Captain, Civil Engineer, foot model, astronaut, and Mother of the Year are a few that come to mind. Tonight I realized that I can officially add CRACK-HO to the list. WHY you ask? Because it's 3:01 a.m. and while you're probably sleeping....I am just coming off the 5 hour "high" I've been on since taking 2 Mucinex-D tablets. They should really label the box a little more accurately. I was thinking something like: "Take this if your feeling a little stuffy OR if you'd like to put your mind on a never-ending elevator ride, where the doors are stuck shut, and ride up and down through various levels off consciousness for the next few hours while you jump, twist startle and flip-flop violently from side to side in your bed OR if you'd like your heart to race as if you're standing on the ice at the Fleet Boston North Center Boston Garden (what the hell do they call that place now anyway?) about to sing the National Anthem along with what's his face." Perhaps I would have opted for some saline spray had I seen the side-effects more accurately depicted on the box.</div><br /><br /><div>Now, back to bed where I can hopefully stay focused on the things I STILL might be in this lifetime....</div><br /><br /><div>Bagger at Stop & Shop?</div><br /><br /><div>Shoe Saleswoman?</div><br /><br /><div>a regular on Saturday Night Live?</div><br /><br /><div>published writer? photographer?</div><br /><br /><div>(guess I'm still a little high huh?)</div><div></div><div></div></div>Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-90966239138538211082009-11-03T17:32:00.001-05:002009-11-03T17:41:29.547-05:00Random Thoughts in First GradeThere I was...totally engaged in my big song and dance about main idea and supporting details (yes, first grade is now officially second grade)...and a hand shot up.....I thought PERFECT!somebody knows what I'm talking about.....whose going to make an important contribution to the conversation... so I called on the kid. And he said, "How do you say <strong><em>'you are my arch enemy'</em></strong> in Chinese?" Ahhhhhh.....the joys of teaching.Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174961294519804568.post-44429421228380736222009-10-31T08:20:00.001-04:002009-10-31T08:44:27.894-04:00Happy Halloween!WOW... that was a close one. October was ALMOST a <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">blogless</span> month. But not for lack of material. I have some "Quotes of the Day" I'd like to share..... Let me know what you think. I may want to create my own daily calendar with these things and sell it for Christmas.<br /><br /><strong>The scene</strong>: 9:00 last night. Maddy's been in her crib since 7:30. I go in there for the umpteenth time and there she is with her pajama top off. "MADDY!?!?? <strong>WHAT</strong> are you doing???" Her reply, "<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">Lettin</span> my <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">beddy</span> but-tin out." (belly button)<br /><br /><strong>The scene</strong>: last night....9:30....Maddy' still at it. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">Rolly</span> goes in her room on his way out the door for hockey, so he's fully dressed and has a baseball hat on. "Go to sleep Maddy!!" he says in firm Daddy voice.<br />"Where's <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">dada</span> going?"<br />"Daddy's going to sleep!"<br /><strong>"WIT YOUR HAT ON????!?!??!?!??!??"</strong> she says, in disbelief.<br /><br /><strong>The scene</strong>: Ava's in her room dancing and singing (off key) to Jonas Brothers CD....she comes busting out of her room, "MUM, mum, mum....when I'm 8 and a half (random age!?!?) can you sign me up for opera lessons?" Sure Ava, just saw opera is being offered at the YMCA now.<br /><br /><strong>The scene</strong>: my first grade classroom. The kids are sitting on the rug while I am reading a book. In come two of my girl students who are two peas in a pod (aka: always up to no good)....after what has been a <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">looooooong</span> time in the girl's bathroom (YES it starts this early). I say (in firm teacher voice) "GIRLS!?!?!? What on Earth were you doing in there?" The both reply without any hesitation. One says, "I had the runs." The other, "I was trying to go but it was stuck." Well, THAT'S what I get for asking them what took them so long in the bathroom!!!!<br /><br /><strong>The scene</strong>: first grade classroom, we're reading a story called "Don't Ride Your Elephant to School." I'm joking with the kids about other animals, "So if you have a giraffe don't ride it to school!!! Does anyone in here have a giraffe???" One of my little boys shoots his hand in the air and waves it around madly, "<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">OOOO</span> -<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">OOOOO</span>-<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">OOOO</span>!!!!" So I call on him and he says, "My DAD has a FOOTBALL <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-error">GRAFFE</span>!!!"<br /><br />Check back later for photos of the cutest little witch and her adorable black cat!Keri Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06084929805275216659noreply@blogger.com0